What lies behind
us and what lies before us are small matters compared to what lies within
--Ralph Waldo Emerson
The voice of intelligence ... is drowned out by the roar of fear. It
is ignored by the voice of desire. It is contradicted by the voice of
shame. It is biased by hate and extinguished by anger. Most of all it
is silenced by ignorance.
--Dr. Karl Menninger
to find others
Web Rings - Assorted
up for the New Poly Love Dating Community
- Assorted Types
experience with certain companies
for Sale & Auctions + Items Wanted
Note: Please make sure you put *@sensualforyou.com on your whitelist, friend's list or whatever list you need to make sure you get all of my e-mails.
Because of the word "sensual", most of my e-mails get caught up in the spam filters.
I'm finally ready to start gathering people together for polyamorous support
& social meetings here in Toronto (GTA).
you are interested, please read over the Poly
read over my personal essay first before e-mailing me for friendship.
whole site has different areas that address different things I may be
looking for or information & help I have to offer you.
each area there is the appropriate e-mail link after I'm finished speaking.
be respectful of me & only e-mail me from the appropriate area that
P.S. Here's a mainstream MB (message board)/forum for all of you in Toronto who wish to interact with other Torontonians. We really need a good board like this for just finding out referrals. I often ask people for recommendations on places to go to buy this, that or the other thing.
Hi everyone &
welcome to my polyamorous web site.
Most people who come
to this site are looking for information on the polyamorous lifestyle.
I highly recommend
book to see if you are ready to forge ahead in building your poly
lovestyle or just to better understand the poly lovestyle in general.
I also highly highly recommend this book I just finished reading on how to build spirit centered relationships.
You can read more of my review if you'd like.
For the all the people
not familiar with the net, when you see a word or sentence that is underlined,
please wave your mouse over it to see if it is a link you can access. Generally
it is a different colour than the rest of the sentence.
The text links on
the right consist of my full personal essay. If you are potentially
interested in me as a friend or intimate partner, please read all of those pages
on the right.
The links on the left
are various different sites for polyamorous groups, business opportunities, biamorous
information, health and beauty, dating sites etc.
Below I will also
detail major sections of my site, so please continue reading.
help contribute to this site by clicking on the banners & links that
do spend a lot of time & effort keeping the site interesting &
If you have a site
that you feel would compliment mine & you would like to trade links,
me & we'll see how if we fit.
- If sex is your
only or main interest, click here
- What is the polyamorous
lovestyle all about you ask? I have several sites here
- Books & Videos
on polyamory, learning alternative methods for healing emotionally,
getting rid of past issues, alternative methods for raising children
& books on spirituality, so please help contribute to this site
& click here
of my personal essay) My personal essay will explain what traits I look for in a platonic friend & a bit about who I am as a person, so you can see if I interest you.
I consider myself to be a "true" polyamorous biamorous
spiritually conscious woman in search of a spiritually conscious polyamorous single or committed biamorous or straight
man, single or committed spiritually conscious biamorous woman or a spiritually conscious polyamorous couple (M/M, M/F or F/F).
Even though I live in Toronto, Ontario (Canada), I don't care where you are from really because I have no problem making phone friends.
At first I only seek friends to start a platonic
friendship with no expectations. I feel that having expectations means you are living in the future & I prefer to live in the present living each day as it comes.
I know this is hard for mores humans as they still have issues in regards to love & sexuality, but please respect how I feel.
If you feel you have enough friends in your life already & you can't accept me as just a friend, then please don't respond to me.
I find it insulting that
people feel I'm not good enough to be their friend, but hey, I can be their sex partner.
Saying that, my goal is to eventually have an intimate relationship with people, but
compatibility & chemistry is very important to me. I won't just start a relationship with anyone. I'm not desperate.
I know everyone has busy schedules & lately mine has gotten busier, but I will make every effort to maintain & continue a friendship with you if we are compatible as friends & I ask you to do the same.
If you are just too busy, I don't see the point in even contacting me, as I believe all relationships need to be consciously worked on.
So, to close here, please read my complete
personal essay in full if you seek either a platonic friendship or friendship that may lead to intimate relationship.
I have shortened my personal essay quite a bit, so I know EVERYONE can get through it now with no excuses LOL
If you don't have the time to read what I have to say in full, please bookmark my site & come back when you do have time.
I always recommend people print off the pages so it's easier for you to read.
I thank you in advance.
- Poly Love, the
NEW up and coming poly dating site. If
you wish to be notified when the NEW Poly Love Dating site is launched,
please click here...
- I run a few Online
Groups such as Spiritual polyamorous groups, one for people worldwide & one for people just in Toronto & the surrounding areas, Bi People who Love, a group for
people who believe women are human beings too & a group for alternative
We are here to discuss, learn, grow or even potentially find friends or partners.
If you are interested, please read over the group's
homepages to see if you would like to join.
All members are pre-screened to eliminate trollers, spammers & people
who don't resonate with the group's views.
We would love to have you.
- How to decide if
you & your partner are right for the polyamorous lovestyle plus
addressing jealousy in relationships. I have several links
that talk about these issues.
- If you don't feel
we are compatible, you can click here
to find other people who may be more suited.
test of a first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposed ideas
in mind at the same time and still retain the ability to function. One should,
for example, be able to see that things are hopeless and yet be determined
to make them otherwise.
--F. Scott Fitzgerald
The best way to change your belief system is to change the truth about you.
What you actually *do* is more important than what you say you'll do.
--Steve Chandler 100 Ways to Motivate Yourself
My complete Personal
Poly Site's Main Menu
Why I screen on
Seeking Platonic Friends
My Spiritual History
Who is Michelle
What I physically seek in others
Type of poly relationship
If you find any errors, bugs, typos etc., please contact me here
giving me the URL of the page plus copying the paragraph where the error
Thank you so much for letting me know.